The #MindMonsters Project
A creative awareness campaign that explores the psychology of self-sabotage and helps you overcome your own inner demons
The #MindMonsters project helps you to overcome your self-sabotaging issues using creativity and lateral thinking. It requires no special skill set (other than the experience of being human) and it will take just a few minutes of your time.
Here’s the “Why?”:
Emotional issues can make us feel isolated. And yet, we all have our monsters of the mind. For some, the struggle is with anxiety, anger or guilt. Others battle with procrastination, overeating, drinking too much or repeatedly pushing their loved ones away. Almost all of us struggle somewhere with the sense that we’re just “not enough” in some kind of way: not good enough, pretty enough, thin enough, nice enough, strong enough, creative enough, smart enough, cool enough, hardworking enough, etc.
While in the grip of our most negative thoughts, we can feel as though we’re less worthy than others, and although it’s natural to want to hide our shameful secrets away, doing so only makes things worse.
The unfortunate truth is that trying to either fight or ignore our monsters actually makes them stronger. In contrast, exploring (and even sharing) our stories – as difficult as it can be at times – makes things better. Furthermore, expression of our struggle heals not only our own pain but also that of other people because in communicating the darker parts of human experience, we all learn that we’re not alone.
The #mindmonsters drawing project creates a platform for everyone to do this, either anonymously or not. And the best bit? It can actually be fun.
Last year, I published a book on the psychology of self-sabotage called The Mind Monster Solution.
The Mind Monster Solution includes tasks and creative visualisation processes like those I use with my clients. In chapter one, the reader is encouraged to imagine the part of their personality that causes them to do self-destructive things (like procrastination, eating too much, drinking too much, having panic attacks, or pushing loved-ones away, etc).
Nameless; a fear-of-being-unworthy monster.
Ever since the first draft was written, people who have read my book have sent me images of what they visualised. The range is fantastic. Some are drawn by hand, others digital. Some by people who are clearly very skilled at holding a pencil, and others by regular non-artists just like the rest of us. I’ve received animated gifs, angry scribbles, detailed paintings and even one amazing song.
It’s been both inspiring and humbling to receive such personal pieces of artistic expression. I would love to gather as many as possible, so I can post a whole troop of mind monsters to social media and the mindmonsters website, where they can share their important message.
The #mindmonsters project creates a space for us all to share our experience of self-sabotage in a creative, abstract, fun and ultimately very touching way.
This is Rager; a binge-drinking monster.
I’m sharing the images on Instagram and other social media platforms to raise awareness about the prevalence and effect of stress, self-doubt and shame.
If you’d like to contribute an image – either anonymously or with attribution – I’d be absolutely thrilled. Please note that the drawing most certainly does not need to be “good”! To take part, click here.
You can also post your own image to social media to keep the conversation going. Please use the hash tag #mindmonsters in your post, and you can connect with me using these handles and links:
The Ming Monster Solution Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/fight.thebook/
Or, the Hazel Gale Cognitive Hypnotherapy Facebook page.
Monster Profile – No Shell
- Monster’s name: No Shell.
- No Shell is a fear-of-being-in-the-spotlight monster.
- He lives “amongst you and me.”
- If he had a voice, he would say, “I’ve lost my shell!”
- He makes his human feel “small.”
- He comes from “a deep seated fear of not feeling confident amongst a crowd.”
- His human would like to give him his shell back: “His source of power and confidence that allows him to be himself.”
Many thanks to Dom for contributing this wonderful little critter!